I’ve been a bit down lately… exhausting work, being awesome! The worst part about it is the fact that I am not the type of person who sits and dwells on those things that don’t go my way. In fact, I am mostly the opposite.
See, it’s my birthday tomorrow and the only thing I really want is some time with my family. In 2015, I left my job so I can be with them more, but I feel that sometimes it’s too hard and I possibly made the biggest mistake of my life!
Nearly 11 years ago I had the pleasure of helping out in an online chat room called “Love & Fun at Central Station”. It was on a program called PalTalk! I remember those days like it was yesterday, and watching my friends on camera, listening to them all talk from around the world with their different accents and hearing about their some true and others made up stories about their adventures. Was amazing.
I began to realise that something happened since those days that has actually damaged my soul, just a little and it really hit a nerve.
I was truely happy, I could put on my Alter Ego (CheekieSht) and be whoever I wanted to be at any given time. Because I helped as an Admin in the group, it was difficult to get too adventurous under that name, but nothing stopped me from using Mi55fiT or CheekieMi55fiT when I wasn’t busy watching my tribe.
Central Station and the friends I made during those years is what got me started in the world of Mind Therapies. Just wandering what sort of life other peoples could invent in their imaginations. Some came in using their own personalities, and others came in with a different persona that they just couldn’t be in their real lives.
With the introduction of Facebook and Instagram etc, technology has made it so easy to lose track of life and what really happens.
I have a truly inspiring friend. I have never met her in real life, but I feel like she is my sister. She wrote something on facebook not long ago, and it does not matter what she said, or the context of her personal life, but it did matter to my few sad moments of realisation I had this week.
She said… and not quoting her words but…
“Don’t sit and dwell over your past. You may have insult or injury, acknowledge this misfortune, mourn your loss, then get up and find something to look forward to!”
It reminded me that the all mighty Universe (or God, or whoever you believe in) is there for your protection and guidance. It gives you everything you ask for. If you want something, all you need to do is imagine yourself already having it and whatever you do, never let anyone else say it’s not true. Let them taint their own reality, but keep them out of yours.
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